Parents how to care and education of adolescent girls

First, do not ignore the construction of a good parent-child relationship, so that her daughter to get the warmth of family. From the point of view in many cases, parents are because of the neglect of the daughter enter adolescence emotion completely don’t in childhood, even still treat children parenting style face daughter, it is easy to make parent-child relationship conflict, a long time, girl’s reverse psychology are being strengthened constantly, until the adults and children between each other is not recognized, do not trust, do not accept, feel the child of the family warmth. When the girl from the emotion cannot from the father father, from the mother’s body to lack of maternal love, the heart will be very lonely and depressed, the result is bound to look for outside the family that can meet their emotional needs. Once the emotional transfer to the outside of the family, parents are difficult to control the scope of the action of her daughter, not to mention security, its dangerous consequences are difficult to predict.
The two is not only focused on the academic achievements and said, was concerned about her daughter’s craving. In the exam oriented education today, many parents still excessive emphasis on the score itself, while ignoring the healthy personality and psychological training for her daughter. Once the child is affected by the bad social atmosphere, and the influence of learning useless, will inevitably turn their attention to learning. When they get a temporary psychological comfort from the opposite sex, they will believe that the opposite sex than their parents to her good, will naturally relax vigilance. Once the lack of self protection, in the induction of the opposite sex, a step by step into the abyss of danger. So, adolescent daughter’s parents must draw attention, in addition to take care of the children’s learning, but also concerned about life and emotion of the daughter, make her feel that parents can trust, is deeply in love with her, let the children from their parents get enough psychological sense of security, no empathy from outside the home.
Three is not a strong discipline daughter, but a reasonable education and guidance. Hit and scold, responsibility and punishment, need careful consideration, must not be arbitrary. Otherwise, you will hurt her daughter’s self-esteem, once the girl lost self-esteem, they will break the jar broke, the more parents do not let what they do, they do. As a result, the non – once the discipline is not the purpose, but to further strengthen the contradictions. From the parent-child relationship is very tense family, parents often and let things only, attitude is stiff, the daughter will be opposite to. No matter what the children do something wrong, parents must first learn to care about their daughter’s psychological feelings, so that her daughter feel the parents of their own good. Second, to help her daughter to restore things through, to help them to do a careful analysis, by guiding the children to judge the right and wrong, to improve the child’s cognitive ability. If parents are lack of enough patience, easily by anger the daughter of negative emotions, is likely to make the problem cannot be solved, not to mention the purpose of education and guidance.
Four is to ignore the construction of the family rules, often let girl self-awareness is very strong. Many parents in children’s growth process, most of them neglect the role and power of conventional rules, ferial education alone empty preaching, no by no according to. Sometimes parents say a few words, a few children even sophistry, rational than adults. If parents usually pay attention to the construction of the rules of the family, to their children life work set the rules and meet the educational opportunities, to the rules as the basis, combined with an analysis of the fact that, in general, easy to get the child’s identity. At the same time, we also see, not bound by the rules of the adolescent girls, we often want to more freedom, first at home and outside the home, a long time will persist, in total disregard of the consequences of doing things.
Five is not to ignore the adolescent sex education, so that her daughter to learn to protect their own pure body and mind. With the development of economy, the concept of opening, the diversification of information channels, many girls have become more and more adult behavior after puberty. They always feel that they have grown up, they can be responsible for themselves, but due to the experience of life is very short, very little social experience, in resolution, self-control is very weak. At the same time by the rapid development of physiological development, the girl’s mood changes faster, because the parents and teachers can not move a few words to stimulate the heart can not afford to feel their own innocent and grievances. When the girls want to vent emotions, often find heterosexual boys. Due to heterosexual boys also faced girl’s emotional state of development, coupled with the physiological impact dynamic also in unceasing enhancement, the slightest mistake will be offside special move. Hope that parents usually want to take time to educate her daughter, so that she knows how to protect their body, not easy to play emotions, indulge themselves.
Six is not to use the negative case as someone’s home joke, to be used as a teaching material to use. Every year, there are a lot of adolescent girls out of the case, some even painful, life threatening. Rational parents should be combined with the case to educate and guide the daughter, let the child know, once lost parents protection, relying on their fragile body once regardless of the consequences easily escape from home, like the grassland on the stray lamb, it is easy to fall into the wolf population. When the girls are deeply aware of the community is far from their imagination, there will be a kind of psychological fear, will not easily move away from home. Especially today in the Internet and social platforms is very convenient, parents must be on her daughter’s cell phone and Internet use norms, can not let the optional use. Otherwise, network trap were readily phagocytosed girl.

On the education of children

On the education of children

 

If you’re puzzled for children‘s education, so by the time you see here, please take a few minutes to read it, perhaps you have some feeling.

 

Every family has a baby, an eye, a life of our peopleour children.

 

Our efforts, for him, for this family, busy every day, every night, and wanted to give him the best, make him happy, happy, make him the happiest man in the world.

 

Desire is good, but if you think you found the child the same? Some parents who struggled to raise our children, but actually hurts the heart hurt God, martyrdom. Why? Why not all the same, why pay so much, in return, but children do not understand, or even respond to you are cold. Of course, this is part of the family‘s problems, is also the most headache problem.

 

When the kids go to kindergarten, and began to reach out to more people, began to learn communication skills, learning management, learning to participate in collective life, there is their small community. When started in primary school when they began to be independent, learning cultural knowledge … …

 

Said so much without a student is used. Good, bad, and how to learn. Children first learn they are their parents, parents ‘ words and deeds which directly affects children, your behaviour, manners, opinions, influence for their children was invaluable, because the effect is subtle. Everyone wants, expectations and ambitions into the Phoenix. Because the child is his own glory! They will give or powdered or smear on your face. They are a mirror to themselves, their performance, or make us happy, or make us angry, that sometimes we tend to be our most real portrayal.

 

Children are the most pure and beautiful, just like a piece of white paper, you drawwhat he has become what, once you are ready to change is difficult, because it becomes the child‘s understanding.

 

That is what kind of attitude do you have, directly affect the child, there is a word called, attitude is everything. What were you thinking? To work, parents, friends, what is your attitude? Joy? Sad? Pessimistic? Love? Hate?

 

You of heart loaded of is love, so this love, will illuminated children, illuminated family, you of heart loaded of is hate also or sad, and how can glow shiny, children is small, and can really of what are not understand, from you heart of that copies love he are can feel to, so you of mentality directly effect children, so this first any teacher to from mentality Shang change.

 

Every child has, or rich or poor they are warm, of course, is physically here, also hada home in the heart, called the heart, how can you do warm your heart? This home no so more of material cross, intrigue, and people comparisons, only you most wants to of a copies warmth, a moved, actually this is love, inside deep of love, more is we of a double eyes, we of heart, do don’t let this unpredictable of world lane blind has we heart, because he can to children, to family, most sincere of moved.

 

What is love? Everyone loves their child, anxious to heart! But love is not spoiled, love is not all the way he wanted to, but give him forever inexhaustible wealth, is a good state of mind, a truth in life. With a good attitude, no matter how hard the stormwill not be the loser, with the truth in life, to be respected everywhere, penetration in all, beyond and above the masses. Of course, the process of developing good habits is not easy. We need to have much love, patience, confidence, tolerance, understanding and kindness. When your child makes a mistake when, when his horse around, and when he asked when you play, you‘ll heart you? Compromise the mistake? Still stick to my principles, your ideas directly affect him.

 

Come to school every day is really to learn knowledge? If this is the case simply don’t learn too much. Was more important for him to learn when studying what kind of attitude should be used for dealing with job and still experience the pleasure of learning, do you know about children‘s learning? If the former, then the child will never be passive, that is, children are learning to the nose, don’t even have a happy, positive, how about other, more learning methods? You tell him so much, he can learnit? So on children of education to do, modesty, don’t because children problem not do, or is brain not resuscitation on denied children, you can with easily of metaphor to help children, as don’t to children caused a pressure, because pressure of behind is fear, is disgust, is escape, this is many children why like lie of reasons, because has a “fear” word in heart.

 

And don’t score as a measure of a child‘s instrument, don’t compare to each other,whatever it is, because everyone has come to this world of meaning, each has its own merits, despite their strengths shine, shiny, because you compared, children are compared. More than money, than the right, than to enjoy than family. But what good is it? When these occupy the heart of time aren’t really blind? If you don’t know what love is? Don’t know how to love? So-called expressions of love into a matter of satisfaction, to the wind was wind, rain rain, even the stars want to pluck. So, if one day, does not meet it? What do children think, my mom, Dad, how could you not love me anymore as before? Children than, than the father than the mother. All in all, isnot to blame for the child, can only say that we do not have to give them a correct understanding.

 

Many parents complained that the children were not sensible, not listening, and notdistressed people, parents children, children‘s heart on a stone. Back home, becamea little ancestor, what do want to do, it does not reach the goal not to give up. Sometimes, in addition to mobile phones, is the computer or television, like those are allspiritual. It is really sad! Alas!

 

Why would this be? Because the child does not love, does not know how to love, because he feels that these are MOM and dad do it, no need to concern themselves. And MOM and dad do this is well deserved. In fact, no matter how large, to teach herlover, not always accept love, isn’t it? Accept, all the love becomes a matter of course. So let go, don’t be afraid, afraid that, timid, children free, let them know that someone loves you, to love myself, so that the mind often was light and moist, he returns you will love, so he will know, care, care and filial piety. At that time, you‘ll be pleased.

 

Fear errors, on fear has errors is Dodge errors, can’t admitted, more terrible of is, parents is ignored errors, and indulgence errors, can’t encountered what things, who on who wrong, results how does not important, important of is to has a star honest of heart, this is rare of, as long as dare squarely himself of errors, this is man of as, may things small, but Verve not small, courage not small. Do you think someone with this kind of attitude, he is a loser? So children are wrong, no matter who is out, parents must be on reason, do not give the child a wrong impression, don’t let your children see themselves as backers, because you can’t stay with him I. Only his courage and maturity, has his own ideas, have some hardship, an aggrieved and don’t be afraid, it is the cornerstone of our success!

 

These reasons may be too large, but the meaning is not small, because the drop in the stone, detail decides success or failure, the child‘s education must be done with adelicate heart.

 

Don’t bother, don’t be afraid to drag, the education, and do for themselves is not acreated? Grind your mind like glowing pearls, there is the power of love. If you pay,you in return is an invaluable asset, was better than what has come to be happy, because you paid for a thankful heart, know your heart, which want to want to feel happy.

 

Well, with all that said, I hope all of you have helped, in fact, educating children is educating myself, improve yourself, hope that the hurried pace of life, will not take away our hearts love and best wishes for happiness.

How to develop children’s reading habit

How to develop children‘s reading habit

 

Cannot be achieved overnight children‘s reading habit, you need to have a process,step by step. As parents we need to first have a normal heart, not the pursuit of material gain, let the children play in the process of reading then to understandchildren, combined with the child‘s interests, to guide the children and let the child‘sinterest in reading; the third is to insist, the most difficult as well, once the stick willbe fruitful. Children reading this process made me very impressed. How to developchildren‘s reading habit, I have the following three practices:
And provide kids with reading environment
Reading need to have atmosphere, family reading atmosphere has important implications for child, parents often read at home, children with imitation time kids will love reading slowly, imperceptibly, moisten things silently. Three of us often read together around a table, watching their favorite books, even if it‘s just reading the newspaper. Instead, the parents watching TV all day, that your child will read along, and over time became the couch potato. Many parents complain that their children do not love reading, watching TV all day long, in fact, this child wasn’t entirely to blame,television does best, fascinate adults, let alone children. Is the need for parents to let children do well personally, and example of parents is very important.
Second, choose the right children‘s books
In addition to create a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere of family reading, but also to provide children to read children‘s books, and in the selection of books is the ageof the child to adjust. From tearing rotten baby cardstearing rotten reading of infantsinfant pupils in journalsubscribesubscription publications. With subscriptions can keep books a steady stream of updates, children will have a new book everymonth, this is a guaranteed permanence of reading, if the books every day, childrenhave had enough. Books also have the advantage of the subscription, book paper isnot reflective, you can protect children‘s vision, in pursuit of Deluxe version sold outside of many children‘s books, mostly coated paper so that when reading, adults and children does not, reflective glare easily hurt children‘s eyes. In addition to subscriptions, I often go to the bookshop, there are good books I bought, some leave aftershe read the book, I think, to read when she wanted to see, I will be in the net to access the online some excellent books at home and abroad.
Books in addition to regular updates, also pay attention to the diversity of books, choices such as fairy tales, encyclopedic knowledge, historical stories, Chinese and foreign Classics series, which can broaden the field of children‘s reading, let the children a wide range of interests, a wide range of knowledge. Celebrity biographies, success stories can help children get a good education.
Third, let the children choose their own way of reading, and parents give appropriate guidance.
Early children two or three age Shi of reading I used of parent-child reading mode–first adults tells several again, again respectively played role tells, you told a, I told a, increased has interesting, promotion parent-child feelings, children has is like, every day will wrapped around with you a again and a over told, children small of when, like repeat listening to himself familiar of story, in told story of when, I are habits “points read”, side refers to with pictorial Shang of text side tells, is this unconscious of “points read” let children in listening to story of while recognize has many Word, I did not notice at first, but when sorting through the cards, children around, I just askher, she will know. I was shocked, we didn’t teach her how to read, how could it be?Also did not go to kindergarten. Later, guess, may be read when children listen and remember, validated, indeed. I found this reading in a way that‘s suitable for their children, will continue to be used, some time after the child‘s literacy soared, whilemutualspeak reading on the rise while interest also play a role in correcting typo.
Some children also love to listen to stories, has weakened after a period of time of interest, what is the reason? In fact, some parents asked the child finished the story:who in the story, they were doing? Do you still remember these words? Let the child have a heart stress, feel after listening to the story and I want to answer the questions, keep in mind a lot of words, is not so pleasant. I think the story should make children feel is a kind of enjoyment, feel the affection from parents.

Here are four basic skills to listen to.

Here are four basic skills to listen to.
(1) passive listening (remain silent)
If more than half of the time you are talking, the child will find that he is difficult to tell you his troubles. In the high efficiency of consulting, silence is gold, of course, is the truth, because of the negative listening is a very strong non language information, but your face and attention needs the following message transfer to the children:
I accept your feelings.
I trust you, let you decide what you want to say to me.
You call the shots, because it’s your problem.
In fact, the way most of this passive listening was born in business, due diligence consultants talk with the case, more than half of the time will remain silent. Passive listening encourages children to share their feelings, and to explore deeper and more fundamental issues that are more troubling than previously mentioned. Of course, the only silence is not enough, the children talk to trouble is not just silence silent listening.
(2) in listening (expression attention reaction)
The stumbling block to communication is often the child’s feeling that his message is not accepted. Silence is exempt from these obstacles, but not necessarily for the children to show you are really focused on listening to. Therefore, using language or nonverbal cues you really listened in, can be helpful when doing in conversation pause. We call these cues to express our attention. Nodding, leaning forward, smiling, frowning and other physical movements if used properly, can let the child know that you heard his words. “Oh”, “ah”, “ah” suggestive of such a language, can be referred to as empathy response to sound, can let the child know that you are attentive, you have the interest to listen to, so he will continue to pour out his difficulties.
Sometimes, parents talk too much, the child will feel that there is no chance to tell their own troubles, it is better to listen to the child’s narrative. Parents should use a lot of this class to express their attention, to naturally express their interest and focus.
(3) general (to encourage and guide the children to speak.)
Children occasionally need extra encouragement to say how they feel and feel, especially when the talks are just beginning. So, conscientious parents often encourage children to talk to his opening, for example:
Do you want to talk about it?
I’m interested in what you think.
It sounds as though you have something to do with this.
Do you want to talk more about it?
Please note, these questions are open, let the children no limit on any aspect of a problem. Children can be free to select content is shared. Moreover, this kind of question is not for children earlier talk comment or criticism.
(4) active listening
Active listening is the listener from the conversation and emotion, to talk a way of listening is appropriate and timely feedback.
Active listening does not contain any individual to determine the exact message, only to reflect or feedback he heard the information, and actively said he heard the message to send the message, but also really understand the other side of the feelings. He used his own opinion to send the message to give back, which confirmed that he was listening. The following example is a response to a parent’s response to a typical message sent by a troubled child:
1) children: “I’m so stupid, I can’t do arithmetic. I can never do a good job in arithmetic.”
Parents: “you think you are not smart enough, so you will never know what you are going to do.”
Child: “yes ah.”
2) the child: “I don’t go to bed, the room is dark, there are a lot of ghost.”
Parents: “do you think the bedroom is afraid of ghosts, let you.”
Child: “it’s pretty good.”.”
3) children: “how do people do after death?”
Parents: “you’re thinking about the death of people, and they’re wondering where they’re going.”
Child: “well, you never see them again, aren’t you?””
4) the child: “I don’t want to participate in the birthday party tomorrow.”
Parents: “it sounds like you’re not happy with someone, right?”
Child: “I hate him. He’s not fair.”.”

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Parents influence children for life

Pi Jun said that improper family education, children from their parents ‘ injuries tendto be invisible, invisible, not say. For example, ignorance, inability, helpless. So he believes that improving the quality of the parents themselves more important than change. Parents ‘ qualities will affect a child‘s life.
Pi Jun of the ideal color is very rich in character, is like telling a story to illustrate hispoint. He said that he is an idealist, insists on honesty, is not devoid of integrity andmoral character, because the parents as role models.
Pi Jun 3-year-olds with the mother to grandmother‘s House. It was winter, snowflakes floating in the sky.
Jeep wheel into the mire, and despite how drivers and car push, push is not. Mothersaw, rushed up to help, and finally push the Jeep out of the mud out. A leader whoheld mother‘s hand tightly profuse, and said that they would send them to Grandma,but the mother refused politely.
This incident gives Pi Jun impressed, and decades later recall the details as clear asyesterday.
So, to help others, integrity, sense of responsibility, and gradually became Pi Jun oflife and faith. He was gratified that, Pi Bao son, before you know it also inherited itsquality.
Not long ago, one evening, at 9 o’clock, Pi Bao finished their homework, start downloading 2,500 commonly used Chinese characters. Pi Jun seeing, wondering. Pi Bao told his father. At 10 o’clock I’m an uncle to teach downstairs to read
It turns out that a security guard downstairs, as illiterate, often bullied on the job, vowing to learn, to change their fate. He does not know who said that, Pi Bao read very much, so finding Pi Bao, hope Pi Bao can teach themselves to read
Said Pi Jun of the son would appreciate the child two days, time is a little short, butI hope he can do about it. This will not only cultivate his love, while also exercising his perseverance, two birds with one stone.

Play the advantages of women constantly improve themselves

Play the advantages of women constantly improve themselves

 

Progress of the times and the needs of people living with HIV, so that more and more women are out of the House, involved in AIDS prevention and controlwork, and make some contribution, the emergence of a large number ofoutstanding women community workers. However, although some women have ahigh work ethic, but in attitude, working ability, there is a certain lackof work skills, so that their work cannot be quickly effective, there is asense of ambition. Result of which is: whether infected women and womenorganizations, and men and men‘s organizations to share resources, there isstill a lot of interest differences, women in leadership and decision-makingpower was significantly weaker than the male.
As a woman, how to play to their own advantages, and constantly improvethemselves and do community work, improving policy influence? The paper onthese issues, and a female friend has an AC:
Women community workers vulnerable to misunderstandings:
1, do not have enough confidence, always think this is no good, that doesnot work, can’t bear the burden and responsibility;
2, good at learning, not willing to work under pressure;
3, better at specific jobs, global awareness is not strong, the trees, thetrees.
4, that her husband and son is the vocation, work and family when there is a contradiction, of course, give up work;

 

Women have to do community work, I think, can range from a few selfcapacitybuilding aspects: narrative convenience, I divided it into threepoints, five sense:
Three main points:
One, full of confidence:
Believing in yourself is the best! Many has do has mother of women are know with appreciated education to education himself of children, but rarely will this thought with in himself body, also no carried out work, on to himself “prison”, not believes himself is “can do event”, dang himself made results to Shi, think “nothing great of, others also such”, once work in the appeared setbacks and errors, on think himself “nothing”. So, we have to docommunity work, first to establish full confidence, days will be a greatman, with confidence.
With confidence, you will want to believe in their strengths, being willing to show their best side.
With confidence, no matter how old you are facing difficulties, you will never give up, you will face, and ways to deal with it, and your work inthis overcome difficulty and constantly progress and development.
I gained confidence, when you face a new areas and opportunities are notafraid afraid, but bold attempt, expanded his own face and work areas;
So, I think, increase their self-confidence is an important first step.
Second, extensive study:
A wide range of learning include books, learn from others, to their ownlearning:
Books to use enoughwhether in the field, in order to be successful,there is at least one thing in common, that is, continuous learning. Many friends think, age big has, what also learn not has, but, as long as you have active of mentality insisted learning, let learning became a habits, you on can feel to, “scholar don’t 3rd, and Dang sit up and”, you of mentality variable has, you of language variable has, you on work and has new of idea and skills has, you face challenge and difficult Shi solution problem of method and more has, you in unknowingly in the growth has.
So, learn where to start?
1, recommendations first of all, learn jobrelated knowledge, it will makeyour job easier, such as basic knowledge of HIV/AIDS, national andinternational trends, relevant policies and regulations of the State of theepidemic, knowledge, teambuilding skills and knowledge, such as NGO;
2, and understand some and engaged in work has contact of other field of knowledge and work, as do women work, not only to care this field of women problem, also to care other field, as rural women participation, and floating women problem, and feminist movement, related knowledge; do children work, also to care other field of as children support taught, and children interests, and children development, and children rescue, aspects content, we will found, many problem is communicates of, understand they of work, also can on himself of work has inspired;
3, read some books on interpersonal and sharpen your mind, to keep a correctOutlook on life, values, and a good attitude, expanding horizons, hemodified his thought pattern.
Learning from others:
1, learn from the experts: experts not only in theory, but in practice hasaccumulated a lot of experience, we can talk to experts about theircommunities and their own work, the experts will give us good suggestions;
2, to learn from the community of talents: again, there are many excellentcommunity organiser in the long-term work has accumulated a wealth ofexperience and skills, difficulties encountered in the work we have a chatwith them, they‘ll have a lot of very practical approach will also give usgood inspiration.
Self learning: continuous summing up at work and constantly modify theshortcomings and deficiencies, and constantly develop our good points andtheir progress.
Third, continuous efforts
So-called as you sow so shall you reap, if you want to do a good job, solidefforts is essential, we need to consider our work as a careerdedicated,professional, using their hard efforts to achieve excellent results.
1, to establish as a target population‘s consciousness of service, to havethe courage to pay;
2, to continue research and AIDS prevention and control of the newsituation, new characteristics, new changes and needs of the targetpopulation, using this as the basis for our work and a guide;
3, in the long-term activity and practice, formed its own characteristicsand patterns of activity, perseverance and innovation according to thechanging situation;
4, work hard to avoid setbacks and disappointments, to learn patience andpersistence, and never give up.
We often say fake words and not the mules, no matter how much we have highideals and dreams of a happy, no matter how passionately we want tocontribute to the community, based on solid work in communities, withremarkable achievements based on cannot be ignored.

 

We are talking about three points above, the following five:
A, global awareness:
Not only to see the Organization, problems in the region, not only to seetoday‘s issue, also to pay attention to understand the big picture, theglobal situation of the HIV/AIDS, and the prospects for the development ofthe organization.
1, continuous learning, to grasp the national principles and policies,develop their own levels of policy and policy insights;
2, to be resourceful, and according to the situation and requirements in thefield of the Organization, make a decision conducive to organizationaldevelopment to ensure stable, healthy and sustainable development of theOrganization;
3, the active participation of the community and community hot topicdiscussions on major issues, an active women‘s voices, for more decision-making power and policy influence. Not because they do not understand can’tsay do not disdain also don’t want to say, but do not be afraid ofoffending people and not.
Second, the sense of:
And false words and not the mules that corresponds to our women andwomen‘s organizations are more light practice saying? The mules , manywomen‘s organizations at the grass-roots did a lot of work, but alwaysconsidered to be right , not to promote itself, did not let the communityknow more about yourself, which is very regrettable.
So, we want to establish a sense of communication, strengthen their public relations ability:
1, and the Foundation and other organizations to communicate: we womenshould learn to promote themselves and their team, to let people know aboutyour accomplishments, knowing your thoughts and ability to make a positiveand positive impression, it can also provide new opportunities for theirfuture development;
2, and other community organizations to communicate: to showcase theirexpertise, learning best practice and mutual complementarity, mutual winwincooperation, expand the scope of their work and share the stage, establish agood environment for organizational development;
3, communication within the Organization: cheerleader and coach,stimulate internal staff enthusiasm, release of staff work, team spirit, andpromote the development of the Organization;
4, communication with target groups: keep abreast of target group needs andfor specific target groups for the project and the work of the suggestions,and lay the Foundation for better services for the target group in thefuture.
Third, innovation
Innovation is mainly embodied in the following three areas: doing thingsthat others have not done, do other people do bad things, not doing thingsthat others do.
So, to develop their sense of innovation, their work and the team continueto grow, continue to grow:
1, their results do not meet, to have a change of consciousness, to be bold,not afraid of failure, which is a prerequisite for innovation;
2, in order to continuously learn new knowledge, new changes, found in theneeds of the community and its work points, which is the Foundation forinnovation;
3, from efforts to study new situations, explore new methods, new ways oftrying to put forward demand for newer, better, more in line with thecommunity‘s ideas and practices, this is an innovative approach.
4, in the process of innovation, constantly sum up experience, surmountingthe shortcoming, so that his work has a new look, new changes bring newsupport and services to the target population, which is the goal ofinnovation.
Four, gender consciousness
We do not rely on our gender, but to keep in play a woman specialist towork, but also to overcome some of the common ailments in women.
1, consider the issue more from the woman‘s point of view: the problem is inwhat‘s the difference between men and women? Men and women experiencedifferent?
2, femaleoriented quality culture, prominent female character strengths,such as compassion, tolerance, flexibility, understanding, bearing in mindthe male character of the benefits, such as vision, generosity, stronglogical thinking and so on;
3, personal style and glamour: from costumes to talk, stay feminine eleganceand generous, both to increase their self-confidence, can also lead toimpress others, give yourself more opportunities.
4, overcoming some common faults in women, small problems.
Five, sense of balance:
The balance of family and career on the one hand, on the other hand is thebalance between business and health, I do not want our friends areworkaholics, especially people living with friends, the body will never bethe capital of revolution, must understand that give, will be get, do not have to worry about without zitan baht to compete.
To learned do a “thousand hand goddess”, arrangements good body, and family, and career Zhijian of relationship; also to has “seesaw” of art, in body, and family, and career Zhijian looking for best balance points, sometimes in concern body Shang more pay some, sometimes in career Shang more pay some, sometimes in family in the more pay some, dang General Shang of also is balance of.
When we travel, ready for the family in advance, keep phones whiletraveling, networking, comes back to buy the family some specialty, is a wayto keep family;
When the work is going well, and the family shared elation when working whenthere is a problem, seek help from family, you know, family is always thebest backing;
No matter how you outside scenery or fail, how to reason or compromise, inthe family you are the gentle wife and loving mother, you will not change in the family, your lover, and more for children cannot be changed.
Of course, this balance must be established on the basis of family support,therefore, for family support and encouragement is all the work of theFoundation.

 

Finally, I sincerely hope that our women through its continuous efforts,coupled with social support and help, in the area of AIDS prevention and treatment to win your own piece of heaven and Earth, earn respect, wonplaudits, opening up a vast piece of heaven and Earth, a wonderfulinterpretation of the life.

Develop interest in girls, to create girls skills

Develop interest in girls, to create girls skills

Develop interest in girls, to create girls skills

A wide range of interests, hobbies, a great influence on human life. Forgirls, it is even more important. Girls can have their own interests, and as a music so that she will not in the future because nothing better but to feel lonely; girls have broad interests, and to the effort, it is mastered into a golden key to the gate of success; every interest, possible girl’s life … …

 

In real life, although there are a lot of MOM and dad have noticed, varietyof hobbies and how important it is to train girls.
But it cannot be denied is that a large part of MOM and dad, still is inaccordance with their own ideas and preferences, arranged for the baby‘sfuture development path; or because of some inherent educational thought,forced baby to give up one of your favorite things, block baby hobbiesgermination.

 

A little girl came earthworms broke in half, two halves are creeping, isparticularly curious. She broke the earthworms are put into two pots ofsoil, wants to observe broken earthworm can live. Mother was very angry,said: a girl, playing with mud, for nothing! Subsequently, the mother ofearthworms in two mud out of the gate.

 

Babies interested in germination, the MOM in a little girl should be cleanand do some little girl is the right thing to do for the baby was forced tostop acts of observation, exploration. The mother may not think about them,she threw one curse, one, is likely to ruin a woman scientist.

 

Appreciate and respect your baby‘s interest and supported with greatenthusiasm the baby, doing great chess master Xie, mother.
That year, Xie faces or chess team, or the choice of staying in school togive up chess. She wanted to go to school more likely to play chess, becauseonly she knows, just sit before the Board, she will be extremely fun andexciting. And her mother, the electronic engineer graduated from theDepartment of automation, Tsinghua University, considered for only daughteris more of her studies and future. As a literate mother intervention thanMOM and dad both lost a genius chess player, rather than daughter for thisdelay.
So, a very serious conversation between mother and daughter, Xie was only 12years old. You like to play chess, right? Xiao Xie, looked at my mother, I never saw mum‘s so serious, and a bit scared, but still nodded. OK, but youhave to remember that playing chess this way is your own choice, since youchose to play in the future, will be responsible to yourself!
Just think, if the mother had forced Xie, reading, her love of chess, well,Xie now might sit in a University classroom, and our country will lose agood player. It is undeniable that Xie behind, there is a great mother!

 

Advice for MOM and dad
As MOM and dad, not only appreciate your baby‘s interest, but also atfinding the baby‘s interest. And, no matter what your interest in baby, youhave to find with great enthusiasm and support, ability to make itsdevelopment a.

 

Method one: to respect and support the girl‘s interests
To her many interests, she developed a variety of intelligent, as MOM anddad, the first thing we should do is respect her interests and hobbies andmake the appropriate meeting.

 

For example, if your daughter loves butterflies flutter, MOM and dad might as well an flutter butterfly net for her, and her nature to catchbutterflies, and take this opportunity to teach her some knowledge aboutbutterflies and other insects. I went home, and MOM and Dad can also teachher methods of butterfly specimens, and then classify and archive specimenswith her. Opportunities can also provide some illustrations for her books onbutterflies. Perhaps it is in this process, you create a futureentomologists.

 

Method two: on her daughter‘s difficulties when the lend a hand
Train your baby‘s interest, without MOM and dad support encourages. Any onething, baby may be interested at first, but over time you‘ll feel bored, youneed MOM and dad support, especially in times of difficulty, to go with thebaby and have a tough time.
A wise mother would do very well in this regard:
When daughter was in third grade, school classes signed up, she would like to sign up for volleyball class, his father and I support her, but we knewour daughter not to eat the bitter.
Sure enough, two weeks later, daughter face said to me: MOM, playingvolleyball, boring. Teacher lets us run all day, Bunny hop, do sit up, tootired.
I smiled and said, daughter, teacher practice your endurance and jumpingability, which is playing good volleyball basic skills necessary. I believeyou are the best, others can do it you can do it too.
Encouraged her to put in at the same time, I also specially bought for his daughter the volleyball, encourage her to play with my classmates. In addition, I often go to see her and her father‘s training, competitions,often with her volleyball. Gradually, the daughter became the star of theteam, from a setter to a Spiker, growth for the last captain of the schoolvolleyball team.
Most of the time, the baby is like a seedling, growing up will inevitablyencounter difficulties and setbacks. At this time, MOM and dad should befixed to the seedlings were two sturdy sticks, baby when I encountereddifficulties or setbacks, helping her, encourage her, taught her how toovercome difficulties so that she can grow up healthily.

Self-care ability of children developing effective strategies

Self-care ability of children developing effective strategies
Self-care ability of children developing effective strategies
Self-care ability refers to child care in their daily lives to work fortheir own lives. Simply put is self service, take care of yourself, it is aperson‘s most basic life skills. Helps to develop children‘s sense of responsibility, self-confidence and his ability to deal with problems, andwill have a far-reaching impact on the future life of the child. Old sayingsaid: five years of acquisition, as well as 60. This explains theimportance of children developing some good habits from childhood.
Case studyeducation
1. in the Jin dynasty, some children of powerful cock birds all day long,lived a life clothing mouth. Later, the war happens, scatter servantsescape, these children cannot ride a horse, rice won’t Cook, had to sit andwait for death. Now the children around us? Primary school Shi, dad sent, mother received, without himself go a step road, on even bag are is by parents back; to admitted to good is of high school, daily is learning, and learning again learning, hands-on of thing almost are not or without do; finally Shang has University, but they not hanging nets, not wash clothes, Shang University need please nanny, and part-time, even to parents accompanied, clothes pants with home “honor” parents or went straight to the dry cleaning shop……
Imagine if a man even his everyday wouldn’t do or do not want to do, how canwe expect him to do something for someone else in the future? As theancients said: a House do not sweep, sweep the world? as a result,activities to children are required, it is urgent.

 

2. when children are 4 years old this year (b) class of freshmen, one Park,he was a very lively, and his companions in a strange new environmentfriendly; can actively participate in the educational activities of teachers ‘ organizations. When eating, other kids are eating with relish, but he satthere look, and teachers how to encourage, praise, hope he do it yourself,but he just wouldn’t start. At first, we thought he was uncomfortable, youfeed him, he can turn his share of the meal eat it all. Can continuous days are such, we think somewhat strange, will and clearly of grandma understand clearly in home dinner of situation, only know original clearly with dad mother and Grandpa Grandma live in with, a age half of when, on can himself dinner, but eat have everywhere are is, also often sprinkled rice, Grandma too he put clothes lane dirty has, and think he too thin has should more eat points, so on not let he himself eat, and has been feed he dinner, results habit has didn’t want to himself dinner of habits.
Intelligence, ability to light
Current situation of China‘s one-child family, parents tend to pay specialattention to children‘s intellectual development, education, from prenatal care to one or two years taught early childhood literacy, singing, piano,drawing and, parent to child skills training investment is enormous, andneglects the cultivation of self-care ability of children. Tree of natureeducation to make parents think that children of young, don’t worry, childcare capacity are now taught not to teach, learn or not is a matter, grow upnaturally. As everyone knows, the opportunities for such practices deprivedearly self-care ability of children, so that children depend on others,becomes self-centered, selfish personality everyone else should work for me,parents should not give children opportunities for yourself, let them buildconfidence through exercises and finish they can complete tasks, and getsthe job done and proud of myself. This is young children build self-confidence, sense of achievement, independence, effective premise ofwillpower.
3. the Crystal children in kindergarten is a very good kid. She can do anything: their eating, dressing myself, by myself … … Also often helpsome weaker companion, is the leader in teachers ‘ eyes. Day morning Park,Crystal shoes back, by teacher after a reminder, she said, Grandma back tome. Good shoes to come over.
Parents ‘ excessive indulgence package
The above example is not difficult to see, children have mastered the skillsof shoes, but why did her parents continue to help? This should beattributed to the parents of the child spoiled children self-care abilityand they do not trust. Most children now mainly consists of Grandpa andGrandma, Grandpa and Grandma before enrollment, more favor to the thirdgeneration of the elderly after their retirement, they say, children, can’t bear to let children do this or that, if worn, what will happen? Dang children are active requirements himself hands-on Shi, parents produced has many of “fear” and “not trust” thought: children himself hands-on wear clothing fear wear not neatly, fear slow has sick; children himself dinner fear eat not full, fear off have everywhere are is, fear eat of slow rice cool has; children himself go fear tired with, fear knock with touch with; children himself wash fear made everywhere is water, fear wash not clean, children himself wipe ass fear wipe not clean, children himself sleep fear sleep not with, fear pedal quilt, fear dangerous…… So parents were deprived of the aspirations and opportunities of children hands-on
4 have two children both want to do it yourself wearing socks, loving theirmothers to meet their aspirations. When faced with a crooked when wearingone of children’s sweating, a mother angrily children shouting: I saidyou’re not, you want to be brave, nevermind, I’ll give you. The childrenmade this no longer willing to try to do things for myself. Bmother was delighted to appreciate one‘s own child: yo! Today, just put yourself in areally competent. Come, let Mommy look! Yeah, that’s good, direction andthen adjust if this place would be better. The children are encouraged tonot only getting socks neatly, and independent work and strong interest andconfidence of, over time, abilities and strong.
Improper guidance strategy of developing
Some parents also want to cultivate children‘s ability, the idea is good,but in the end, there was still no effect. The main reason was the trainingmethods were too simple, rough, impatient, dampening the enthusiasm of thechildren’s self-esteem and learning. When children first started working,often doing very slow, and sometimes even errors and is in need of thesupport and encouragement of parents to help improve so that childrenexperience to finish one thing their happiness, thus enhancing theconfidence in their work.

Girl’s edge

Girl's edge

Girl’s edge
“Will I be as brave as Jack in the Pirates of the Caribbean? Will it save the world like Altman?” The daughter sent such a question, and then, and distressed to say: “they are men, I am just a girl, why is the captain of the non male?”
The daughter is not only unfair, but also feel the sigh of this. In her little head and wondering why the hero is always a man? Why do women heroes so little? At this time, grandma will break her ideas: the girls should be like the girls, the boys are doing, as long as the girl holding the sub line.
The duty? How familiar words ah, only a short while ago formed a popular at a time, what is the girl’s duty? It is to hold that the so-called gentle as an understanding wife and loving mother, skilled, the rest is not permitted for offbeat, social.
However, with the advent of the era of the only child, the promotion of women’s rights to make a girl’s character has changed, but this does not mean that the future of your daughter is not a good housewife. Just think: a good housewife is a good measure of the important standard of girls do? To my observation: the silly girl is sometimes happy, but know how to control their own advantage of the girls have always been scenery! Of course, to ordinary or scenery, only their own. Like a turtle to live longer, if all day lying on the seabed, the live ten thousand years and what is it? Advantage education is the fundamental reason why the girl can not live, play their own advantages to live?
Looked at her daughter’s face, I said: “some of the work for men, some work for women, as the captain of this work long drifting in the sea, not only to endure loneliness, but also need a certain physical. The man is so strong that most of the men are men. However, there is a female captain now, because the technology in the development, the ship is no longer so much manual work, but also need to work, so the captain appeared. Let’s look at the plane. Is there a lot of women in the plane? Just like the captain of a military parade. This shows that girls in the technology is not a bit better than men, there are men and women who have a hero, which depends on you do not want to do well, how to do good. This will require you to take advantage of girls ”
What advantage does the girl have? The girl in the communication and coordination capacity than boys a big advantage, research shows that women left than men developed left brain, left brain controls language and abstract thinking ability, so the female imagination and language skills than the congenital male, show that women should obviously than men in social communication ability. Although not in the power of women and men to compete, but in the future society, communication and the ability of thinking need more things to deal with it, which will undoubtedly make women better play to advantage.
As a mother, you want to tell your daughter’s own advantages, strengthen the training of the left and right brain development, but not to give her a way of thinking, the woman is the weak. This impression made it will affect the development of her character, she ignored the weak advantage, a problem not to think how to solve, but then, or is a relatively strong dependence, in the course of time is to develop the personality of lady, but was buried. This is why some women destined to be buried in the hearth, some women have become a princess like cinderella.
There are many have just entered junior high school girls have wondered why I become more stupid? Is not really what people say, just a girl in the primary school period performance than boys after good, true to the junior high school than boys?
A problem encountered this problem when I have just entered junior high school, in most of the girls have just entered junior high school, many subjects suppressed, learn a bit difficult, this is actually a very natural phenomenon. Don’t be known as “older boys than girls IQ is high IQ” fallacy by misleading, there is no evidence to show that girls IQ is poor than boys, but boys than girls in the rational thinking on a little better, so there are some girls become tired of the science of mathematics physics and chemistry class but, this does not mean that your IQ is a problem, but the problem of the cultivation of interest. To cultivate their own interests, not to go to the Department, the Department will only make your knowledge is narrow.
At this time she needs to be as a mother of your reasonable guidance, to dispel her on the rumors of the boys IQ high error awareness, establish good enough confidence to deal with the new discipline, the new semester, slowly let her into normal learning orbit. Then I also listened to the mother’s encouragement to dispel the doubts, to make the learning achievement more and more good, a lot of boys do not solve the problem of mathematical physics, I still take it easy.
At that moment, I was thinking: who said that girls are worse than boys? As long as you try, what time will you have the advantage, if only not aggressive, genius will become a fool!

Develop interest in girls

Develop interest in girls
Develop interest in girls

 

A wide range of interests, hobbies, a great influence on human life. Forgirls, it is even more important. Girls can have their own interests, and as a music so that she will not in the future because nothing better but to feel lonely; girls have broad interests, and to the effort, it is mastered into a golden key to the gate of success; every interest, possible girl’s life … …

 

In real life, although there are a lot of MOM and dad have noticed, varietyof hobbies and how important it is to train girls.
But it cannot be denied is that a large part of MOM and dad, still is inaccordance with their own ideas and preferences, arranged for the baby‘sfuture development path; or because of some inherent educational thought,forced baby to give up one of your favorite things, block baby hobbiesgermination.

 

A little girl came earthworms broke in half, two halves are creeping, isparticularly curious. She broke the earthworms are put into two pots ofsoil, wants to observe broken earthworm can live. Mother was very angry,said: a girl, playing with mud, for nothing! Subsequently, the mother ofearthworms in two mud out of the gate.
Babies interested in germination, the MOM in a little girl should be cleanand do some little girl is the right thing to do for the baby was forced tostop acts of observation, exploration. The mother may not think about them,she threw one curse, one, is likely to ruin a woman scientist.
Appreciate and respect your baby‘s interest and supported with greatenthusiasm the baby, doing great chess master Xie, mother.
That year, Xie faces or chess team, or the choice of staying in school togive up chess. She wanted to go to school more likely to play chess, becauseonly she knows, just sit before the Board, she will be extremely fun andexciting. And her mother, the electronic engineer graduated from theDepartment of automation, Tsinghua University, considered for only daughteris more of her studies and future. As a literate mother intervention thanMOM and dad both lost a genius chess player, rather than daughter for thisdelay.
So, a very serious conversation between mother and daughter, Xie was only 12years old. You like to play chess, right? Xiao Xie, looked at my mother, I never saw mum‘s so serious, and a bit scared, but still nodded. OK, but youhave to remember that playing chess this way is your own choice, since youchose to play in the future, will be responsible to yourself!
Just think, if the mother had forced Xie, reading, her love of chess, well,Xie now might sit in a University classroom, and our country will lose agood player. It is undeniable that Xie behind, there is a great mother!
Advice for MOM and dad
As MOM and dad, not only appreciate your baby‘s interest, but also atfinding the baby‘s interest. And, no matter what your interest in baby, youhave to find with great enthusiasm and support, ability to make itsdevelopment a.
Method one: to respect and support the girl‘s interests
To her many interests, she developed a variety of intelligent, as MOM anddad, the first thing we should do is respect her interests and hobbies andmake the appropriate meeting.
For example, if your daughter loves butterflies flutter, MOM and dad might as well an flutter butterfly net for her, and her nature to catchbutterflies, and take this opportunity to teach her some knowledge aboutbutterflies and other insects. I went home, and MOM and Dad can also teachher methods of butterfly specimens, and then classify and archive specimenswith her. Opportunities can also provide some illustrations for her books onbutterflies. Perhaps it is in this process, you create a futureentomologists.
Method two: on her daughter‘s difficulties when the lend a hand
Train your baby‘s interest, without MOM and dad support encourages. Any onething, baby may be interested at first, but over time you‘ll feel bored, youneed MOM and dad support, especially in times of difficulty, to go with thebaby and have a tough time.
A wise mother would do very well in this regard:
When daughter was in third grade, school classes signed up, she would like to sign up for volleyball class, his father and I support her, but we knewour daughter not to eat the bitter.
Sure enough, two weeks later, daughter face said to me: MOM, playingvolleyball, boring. Teacher lets us run all day, Bunny hop, do sit up, tootired.
I smiled and said, daughter, teacher practice your endurance and jumpingability, which is playing good volleyball basic skills necessary. I believeyou are the best, others can do it you can do it too.
Encouraged her to put in at the same time, I also specially bought for his daughter the volleyball, encourage her to play with my classmates. In addition, I often go to see her and her father‘s training, competitions,often with her volleyball. Gradually, the daughter became the star of theteam, from a setter to a Spiker, growth for the last captain of the schoolvolleyball team.
Most of the time, the baby is like a seedling, growing up will inevitablyencounter difficulties and setbacks. At this time, MOM and dad should befixed to the seedlings were two sturdy sticks, baby when I encountereddifficulties or setbacks, helping her, encourage her, taught her how toovercome difficulties so that she can grow up healthily.