On the education of children
If you’re puzzled for children‘s education, so by the time you see here, please take a few minutes to read it, perhaps you have some feeling.
Every family has a baby, an eye, a life of our people–our children.
Our efforts, for him, for this family, busy every day, every night, and wanted to give him the best, make him happy, happy, make him the happiest man in the world.
Desire is good, but if you think you found the child the same? Some parents who struggled to raise our children, but actually hurts the heart hurt God, martyrdom. Why? Why not all the same, why pay so much, in return, but children do not understand, or even respond to you are cold. Of course, this is part of the family‘s problems, is also the most headache problem.
When the kids go to kindergarten, and began to reach out to more people, began to learn communication skills, learning management, learning to participate in collective life, there is their small community. When started in primary school when they began to be independent, learning cultural knowledge … …
Said so much without a “student“ is used. Good, bad, and how to learn. Children first learn they are their parents, parents ‘ words and deeds which directly affects children, your behaviour, manners, opinions, influence for their children was invaluable, because the effect is subtle. Everyone wants, expectations and ambitions into the Phoenix. Because the child is his own glory! They will give or powdered or smear on your face. They are a mirror to themselves, their performance, or make us happy, or make us angry, that sometimes we tend to be our most real portrayal.
Children are the most pure and beautiful, just like a piece of white paper, you drawwhat he has become what, once you are ready to change is difficult, because it becomes the child‘s understanding.
That is what kind of attitude do you have, directly affect the child, there is a word called, attitude is everything. What were you thinking? To work, parents, friends, what is your attitude? Joy? Sad? Pessimistic? Love? Hate?
You of heart loaded of is love, so this love, will illuminated children, illuminated family, you of heart loaded of is hate also or sad, and how can glow shiny, children is small, and can really of what are not understand, from you heart of that copies love he are can feel to, so you of mentality directly effect children, so this first any teacher to from mentality Shang change.
Every child has, or rich or poor they are warm, of course, is physically here, also hada home in the heart, called the heart, how can you do warm your heart? This home no so more of material cross, intrigue, and people comparisons, only you most wants to of a copies warmth, a moved, actually this is love, inside deep of love, more is we of a double eyes, we of heart, do don’t let this unpredictable of world lane blind has we heart, because he can to children, to family, most sincere of moved.
What is love? Everyone loves their child, anxious to heart! But love is not spoiled, love is not all the way he wanted to, but give him forever inexhaustible wealth, is a good state of mind, a truth in life. With a good attitude, no matter how hard the stormwill not be the loser, with the truth in life, to be respected everywhere, penetration in all, beyond and above the masses. Of course, the process of developing good habits is not easy. We need to have much love, patience, confidence, tolerance, understanding and kindness. When your child makes a mistake when, when his horse around, and when he asked when you play, you‘ll heart you? Compromise the mistake? Still stick to my principles, your ideas directly affect him.
Come to school every day is really to learn knowledge? If this is the case simply don’t learn too much. Was more important for him to learn when studying what kind of attitude should be used for dealing with job and still experience the pleasure of learning, do you know about children‘s learning? If the former, then the child will never be passive, that is, children are learning to the nose, don’t even have a happy, positive, how about other, more learning methods? You tell him so much, he can learnit? So on children of education to do, modesty, don’t because children problem not do, or is brain not resuscitation on denied children, you can with easily of metaphor to help children, as don’t to children caused a pressure, because pressure of behind is fear, is disgust, is escape, this is many children why like lie of reasons, because has a “fear” word in heart.
And don’t score as a measure of a child‘s instrument, don’t compare to each other,whatever it is, because everyone has come to this world of meaning, each has its own merits, despite their strengths shine, shiny, because you compared, children are compared. More than money, than the right, than to enjoy than family. But what good is it? When these occupy the heart of time aren’t really blind? If you don’t know what love is? Don’t know how to love? So-called expressions of love into a matter of satisfaction, to the wind was wind, rain rain, even the stars want to pluck. So, if one day, does not meet it? What do children think, my mom, Dad, how could you not love me anymore as before? Children than, than the father than the mother. All in all, isnot to blame for the child, can only say that we do not have to give them a correct understanding.
Many parents complained that the children were not sensible, not listening, and notdistressed people, parents children, children‘s heart on a stone. Back home, becamea little ancestor, what do want to do, it does not reach the goal not to give up. Sometimes, in addition to mobile phones, is the computer or television, like those are allspiritual. It is really sad! Alas!
Why would this be? Because the child does not love, does not know how to love, because he feels that these are MOM and dad do it, no need to concern themselves. And MOM and dad do this is well deserved. In fact, no matter how large, to teach herlover, not always accept love, isn’t it? Accept, all the love becomes a matter of course. So let go, don’t be afraid, afraid that, timid, children free, let them know that someone loves you, to love myself, so that the mind often was light and moist, he returns you will love, so he will know, care, care and filial piety. At that time, you‘ll be pleased.
Fear errors, on fear has errors is Dodge errors, can’t admitted, more terrible of is, parents is ignored errors, and indulgence errors, can’t encountered what things, who on who wrong, results how does not important, important of is to has a star honest of heart, this is rare of, as long as dare squarely himself of errors, this is man of as, may things small, but Verve not small, courage not small. Do you think someone with this kind of attitude, he is a loser? So children are wrong, no matter who is out, parents must be on reason, do not give the child a wrong impression, don’t let your children see themselves as backers, because you can’t stay with him I. Only his courage and maturity, has his own ideas, have some hardship, an aggrieved and don’t be afraid, it is the cornerstone of our success!
These reasons may be too large, but the meaning is not small, because the drop in the stone, detail decides success or failure, the child‘s education must be done with adelicate heart.
Don’t bother, don’t be afraid to drag, the education, and do for themselves is not acreated? Grind your mind like glowing pearls, there is the power of love. If you pay,you in return is an invaluable asset, was better than what has come to be happy, because you paid for a thankful heart, know your heart, which want to want to feel happy.
Well, with all that said, I hope all of you have helped, in fact, educating children is educating myself, improve yourself, hope that the hurried pace of life, will not take away our hearts love and best wishes for happiness.