Parents how to care and education of adolescent girls

First, do not ignore the construction of a good parent-child relationship, so that her daughter to get the warmth of family. From the point of view in many cases, parents are because of the neglect of the daughter enter adolescence emotion completely don’t in childhood, even still treat children parenting style face daughter, it is easy to make parent-child relationship conflict, a long time, girl’s reverse psychology are being strengthened constantly, until the adults and children between each other is not recognized, do not trust, do not accept, feel the child of the family warmth. When the girl from the emotion cannot from the father father, from the mother’s body to lack of maternal love, the heart will be very lonely and depressed, the result is bound to look for outside the family that can meet their emotional needs. Once the emotional transfer to the outside of the family, parents are difficult to control the scope of the action of her daughter, not to mention security, its dangerous consequences are difficult to predict.
The two is not only focused on the academic achievements and said, was concerned about her daughter’s craving. In the exam oriented education today, many parents still excessive emphasis on the score itself, while ignoring the healthy personality and psychological training for her daughter. Once the child is affected by the bad social atmosphere, and the influence of learning useless, will inevitably turn their attention to learning. When they get a temporary psychological comfort from the opposite sex, they will believe that the opposite sex than their parents to her good, will naturally relax vigilance. Once the lack of self protection, in the induction of the opposite sex, a step by step into the abyss of danger. So, adolescent daughter’s parents must draw attention, in addition to take care of the children’s learning, but also concerned about life and emotion of the daughter, make her feel that parents can trust, is deeply in love with her, let the children from their parents get enough psychological sense of security, no empathy from outside the home.
Three is not a strong discipline daughter, but a reasonable education and guidance. Hit and scold, responsibility and punishment, need careful consideration, must not be arbitrary. Otherwise, you will hurt her daughter’s self-esteem, once the girl lost self-esteem, they will break the jar broke, the more parents do not let what they do, they do. As a result, the non – once the discipline is not the purpose, but to further strengthen the contradictions. From the parent-child relationship is very tense family, parents often and let things only, attitude is stiff, the daughter will be opposite to. No matter what the children do something wrong, parents must first learn to care about their daughter’s psychological feelings, so that her daughter feel the parents of their own good. Second, to help her daughter to restore things through, to help them to do a careful analysis, by guiding the children to judge the right and wrong, to improve the child’s cognitive ability. If parents are lack of enough patience, easily by anger the daughter of negative emotions, is likely to make the problem cannot be solved, not to mention the purpose of education and guidance.
Four is to ignore the construction of the family rules, often let girl self-awareness is very strong. Many parents in children’s growth process, most of them neglect the role and power of conventional rules, ferial education alone empty preaching, no by no according to. Sometimes parents say a few words, a few children even sophistry, rational than adults. If parents usually pay attention to the construction of the rules of the family, to their children life work set the rules and meet the educational opportunities, to the rules as the basis, combined with an analysis of the fact that, in general, easy to get the child’s identity. At the same time, we also see, not bound by the rules of the adolescent girls, we often want to more freedom, first at home and outside the home, a long time will persist, in total disregard of the consequences of doing things.
Five is not to ignore the adolescent sex education, so that her daughter to learn to protect their own pure body and mind. With the development of economy, the concept of opening, the diversification of information channels, many girls have become more and more adult behavior after puberty. They always feel that they have grown up, they can be responsible for themselves, but due to the experience of life is very short, very little social experience, in resolution, self-control is very weak. At the same time by the rapid development of physiological development, the girl’s mood changes faster, because the parents and teachers can not move a few words to stimulate the heart can not afford to feel their own innocent and grievances. When the girls want to vent emotions, often find heterosexual boys. Due to heterosexual boys also faced girl’s emotional state of development, coupled with the physiological impact dynamic also in unceasing enhancement, the slightest mistake will be offside special move. Hope that parents usually want to take time to educate her daughter, so that she knows how to protect their body, not easy to play emotions, indulge themselves.
Six is not to use the negative case as someone’s home joke, to be used as a teaching material to use. Every year, there are a lot of adolescent girls out of the case, some even painful, life threatening. Rational parents should be combined with the case to educate and guide the daughter, let the child know, once lost parents protection, relying on their fragile body once regardless of the consequences easily escape from home, like the grassland on the stray lamb, it is easy to fall into the wolf population. When the girls are deeply aware of the community is far from their imagination, there will be a kind of psychological fear, will not easily move away from home. Especially today in the Internet and social platforms is very convenient, parents must be on her daughter’s cell phone and Internet use norms, can not let the optional use. Otherwise, network trap were readily phagocytosed girl.

On the education of children

On the education of children


If you’re puzzled for children‘s education, so by the time you see here, please take a few minutes to read it, perhaps you have some feeling.


Every family has a baby, an eye, a life of our peopleour children.


Our efforts, for him, for this family, busy every day, every night, and wanted to give him the best, make him happy, happy, make him the happiest man in the world.


Desire is good, but if you think you found the child the same? Some parents who struggled to raise our children, but actually hurts the heart hurt God, martyrdom. Why? Why not all the same, why pay so much, in return, but children do not understand, or even respond to you are cold. Of course, this is part of the family‘s problems, is also the most headache problem.


When the kids go to kindergarten, and began to reach out to more people, began to learn communication skills, learning management, learning to participate in collective life, there is their small community. When started in primary school when they began to be independent, learning cultural knowledge … …


Said so much without a student is used. Good, bad, and how to learn. Children first learn they are their parents, parents ‘ words and deeds which directly affects children, your behaviour, manners, opinions, influence for their children was invaluable, because the effect is subtle. Everyone wants, expectations and ambitions into the Phoenix. Because the child is his own glory! They will give or powdered or smear on your face. They are a mirror to themselves, their performance, or make us happy, or make us angry, that sometimes we tend to be our most real portrayal.


Children are the most pure and beautiful, just like a piece of white paper, you drawwhat he has become what, once you are ready to change is difficult, because it becomes the child‘s understanding.


That is what kind of attitude do you have, directly affect the child, there is a word called, attitude is everything. What were you thinking? To work, parents, friends, what is your attitude? Joy? Sad? Pessimistic? Love? Hate?


You of heart loaded of is love, so this love, will illuminated children, illuminated family, you of heart loaded of is hate also or sad, and how can glow shiny, children is small, and can really of what are not understand, from you heart of that copies love he are can feel to, so you of mentality directly effect children, so this first any teacher to from mentality Shang change.


Every child has, or rich or poor they are warm, of course, is physically here, also hada home in the heart, called the heart, how can you do warm your heart? This home no so more of material cross, intrigue, and people comparisons, only you most wants to of a copies warmth, a moved, actually this is love, inside deep of love, more is we of a double eyes, we of heart, do don’t let this unpredictable of world lane blind has we heart, because he can to children, to family, most sincere of moved.


What is love? Everyone loves their child, anxious to heart! But love is not spoiled, love is not all the way he wanted to, but give him forever inexhaustible wealth, is a good state of mind, a truth in life. With a good attitude, no matter how hard the stormwill not be the loser, with the truth in life, to be respected everywhere, penetration in all, beyond and above the masses. Of course, the process of developing good habits is not easy. We need to have much love, patience, confidence, tolerance, understanding and kindness. When your child makes a mistake when, when his horse around, and when he asked when you play, you‘ll heart you? Compromise the mistake? Still stick to my principles, your ideas directly affect him.


Come to school every day is really to learn knowledge? If this is the case simply don’t learn too much. Was more important for him to learn when studying what kind of attitude should be used for dealing with job and still experience the pleasure of learning, do you know about children‘s learning? If the former, then the child will never be passive, that is, children are learning to the nose, don’t even have a happy, positive, how about other, more learning methods? You tell him so much, he can learnit? So on children of education to do, modesty, don’t because children problem not do, or is brain not resuscitation on denied children, you can with easily of metaphor to help children, as don’t to children caused a pressure, because pressure of behind is fear, is disgust, is escape, this is many children why like lie of reasons, because has a “fear” word in heart.


And don’t score as a measure of a child‘s instrument, don’t compare to each other,whatever it is, because everyone has come to this world of meaning, each has its own merits, despite their strengths shine, shiny, because you compared, children are compared. More than money, than the right, than to enjoy than family. But what good is it? When these occupy the heart of time aren’t really blind? If you don’t know what love is? Don’t know how to love? So-called expressions of love into a matter of satisfaction, to the wind was wind, rain rain, even the stars want to pluck. So, if one day, does not meet it? What do children think, my mom, Dad, how could you not love me anymore as before? Children than, than the father than the mother. All in all, isnot to blame for the child, can only say that we do not have to give them a correct understanding.


Many parents complained that the children were not sensible, not listening, and notdistressed people, parents children, children‘s heart on a stone. Back home, becamea little ancestor, what do want to do, it does not reach the goal not to give up. Sometimes, in addition to mobile phones, is the computer or television, like those are allspiritual. It is really sad! Alas!


Why would this be? Because the child does not love, does not know how to love, because he feels that these are MOM and dad do it, no need to concern themselves. And MOM and dad do this is well deserved. In fact, no matter how large, to teach herlover, not always accept love, isn’t it? Accept, all the love becomes a matter of course. So let go, don’t be afraid, afraid that, timid, children free, let them know that someone loves you, to love myself, so that the mind often was light and moist, he returns you will love, so he will know, care, care and filial piety. At that time, you‘ll be pleased.


Fear errors, on fear has errors is Dodge errors, can’t admitted, more terrible of is, parents is ignored errors, and indulgence errors, can’t encountered what things, who on who wrong, results how does not important, important of is to has a star honest of heart, this is rare of, as long as dare squarely himself of errors, this is man of as, may things small, but Verve not small, courage not small. Do you think someone with this kind of attitude, he is a loser? So children are wrong, no matter who is out, parents must be on reason, do not give the child a wrong impression, don’t let your children see themselves as backers, because you can’t stay with him I. Only his courage and maturity, has his own ideas, have some hardship, an aggrieved and don’t be afraid, it is the cornerstone of our success!


These reasons may be too large, but the meaning is not small, because the drop in the stone, detail decides success or failure, the child‘s education must be done with adelicate heart.


Don’t bother, don’t be afraid to drag, the education, and do for themselves is not acreated? Grind your mind like glowing pearls, there is the power of love. If you pay,you in return is an invaluable asset, was better than what has come to be happy, because you paid for a thankful heart, know your heart, which want to want to feel happy.


Well, with all that said, I hope all of you have helped, in fact, educating children is educating myself, improve yourself, hope that the hurried pace of life, will not take away our hearts love and best wishes for happiness.

Parents influence children for life

Pi Jun said that improper family education, children from their parents ‘ injuries tendto be invisible, invisible, not say. For example, ignorance, inability, helpless. So he believes that improving the quality of the parents themselves more important than change. Parents ‘ qualities will affect a child‘s life.
Pi Jun of the ideal color is very rich in character, is like telling a story to illustrate hispoint. He said that he is an idealist, insists on honesty, is not devoid of integrity andmoral character, because the parents as role models.
Pi Jun 3-year-olds with the mother to grandmother‘s House. It was winter, snowflakes floating in the sky.
Jeep wheel into the mire, and despite how drivers and car push, push is not. Mothersaw, rushed up to help, and finally push the Jeep out of the mud out. A leader whoheld mother‘s hand tightly profuse, and said that they would send them to Grandma,but the mother refused politely.
This incident gives Pi Jun impressed, and decades later recall the details as clear asyesterday.
So, to help others, integrity, sense of responsibility, and gradually became Pi Jun oflife and faith. He was gratified that, Pi Bao son, before you know it also inherited itsquality.
Not long ago, one evening, at 9 o’clock, Pi Bao finished their homework, start downloading 2,500 commonly used Chinese characters. Pi Jun seeing, wondering. Pi Bao told his father. At 10 o’clock I’m an uncle to teach downstairs to read
It turns out that a security guard downstairs, as illiterate, often bullied on the job, vowing to learn, to change their fate. He does not know who said that, Pi Bao read very much, so finding Pi Bao, hope Pi Bao can teach themselves to read
Said Pi Jun of the son would appreciate the child two days, time is a little short, butI hope he can do about it. This will not only cultivate his love, while also exercising his perseverance, two birds with one stone.