Play the advantages of women constantly improve themselves

Play the advantages of women constantly improve themselves


Progress of the times and the needs of people living with HIV, so that more and more women are out of the House, involved in AIDS prevention and controlwork, and make some contribution, the emergence of a large number ofoutstanding women community workers. However, although some women have ahigh work ethic, but in attitude, working ability, there is a certain lackof work skills, so that their work cannot be quickly effective, there is asense of ambition. Result of which is: whether infected women and womenorganizations, and men and men‘s organizations to share resources, there isstill a lot of interest differences, women in leadership and decision-makingpower was significantly weaker than the male.
As a woman, how to play to their own advantages, and constantly improvethemselves and do community work, improving policy influence? The paper onthese issues, and a female friend has an AC:
Women community workers vulnerable to misunderstandings:
1, do not have enough confidence, always think this is no good, that doesnot work, can’t bear the burden and responsibility;
2, good at learning, not willing to work under pressure;
3, better at specific jobs, global awareness is not strong, the trees, thetrees.
4, that her husband and son is the vocation, work and family when there is a contradiction, of course, give up work;


Women have to do community work, I think, can range from a few selfcapacitybuilding aspects: narrative convenience, I divided it into threepoints, five sense:
Three main points:
One, full of confidence:
Believing in yourself is the best! Many has do has mother of women are know with appreciated education to education himself of children, but rarely will this thought with in himself body, also no carried out work, on to himself “prison”, not believes himself is “can do event”, dang himself made results to Shi, think “nothing great of, others also such”, once work in the appeared setbacks and errors, on think himself “nothing”. So, we have to docommunity work, first to establish full confidence, days will be a greatman, with confidence.
With confidence, you will want to believe in their strengths, being willing to show their best side.
With confidence, no matter how old you are facing difficulties, you will never give up, you will face, and ways to deal with it, and your work inthis overcome difficulty and constantly progress and development.
I gained confidence, when you face a new areas and opportunities are notafraid afraid, but bold attempt, expanded his own face and work areas;
So, I think, increase their self-confidence is an important first step.
Second, extensive study:
A wide range of learning include books, learn from others, to their ownlearning:
Books to use enoughwhether in the field, in order to be successful,there is at least one thing in common, that is, continuous learning. Many friends think, age big has, what also learn not has, but, as long as you have active of mentality insisted learning, let learning became a habits, you on can feel to, “scholar don’t 3rd, and Dang sit up and”, you of mentality variable has, you of language variable has, you on work and has new of idea and skills has, you face challenge and difficult Shi solution problem of method and more has, you in unknowingly in the growth has.
So, learn where to start?
1, recommendations first of all, learn jobrelated knowledge, it will makeyour job easier, such as basic knowledge of HIV/AIDS, national andinternational trends, relevant policies and regulations of the State of theepidemic, knowledge, teambuilding skills and knowledge, such as NGO;
2, and understand some and engaged in work has contact of other field of knowledge and work, as do women work, not only to care this field of women problem, also to care other field, as rural women participation, and floating women problem, and feminist movement, related knowledge; do children work, also to care other field of as children support taught, and children interests, and children development, and children rescue, aspects content, we will found, many problem is communicates of, understand they of work, also can on himself of work has inspired;
3, read some books on interpersonal and sharpen your mind, to keep a correctOutlook on life, values, and a good attitude, expanding horizons, hemodified his thought pattern.
Learning from others:
1, learn from the experts: experts not only in theory, but in practice hasaccumulated a lot of experience, we can talk to experts about theircommunities and their own work, the experts will give us good suggestions;
2, to learn from the community of talents: again, there are many excellentcommunity organiser in the long-term work has accumulated a wealth ofexperience and skills, difficulties encountered in the work we have a chatwith them, they‘ll have a lot of very practical approach will also give usgood inspiration.
Self learning: continuous summing up at work and constantly modify theshortcomings and deficiencies, and constantly develop our good points andtheir progress.
Third, continuous efforts
So-called as you sow so shall you reap, if you want to do a good job, solidefforts is essential, we need to consider our work as a careerdedicated,professional, using their hard efforts to achieve excellent results.
1, to establish as a target population‘s consciousness of service, to havethe courage to pay;
2, to continue research and AIDS prevention and control of the newsituation, new characteristics, new changes and needs of the targetpopulation, using this as the basis for our work and a guide;
3, in the long-term activity and practice, formed its own characteristicsand patterns of activity, perseverance and innovation according to thechanging situation;
4, work hard to avoid setbacks and disappointments, to learn patience andpersistence, and never give up.
We often say fake words and not the mules, no matter how much we have highideals and dreams of a happy, no matter how passionately we want tocontribute to the community, based on solid work in communities, withremarkable achievements based on cannot be ignored.


We are talking about three points above, the following five:
A, global awareness:
Not only to see the Organization, problems in the region, not only to seetoday‘s issue, also to pay attention to understand the big picture, theglobal situation of the HIV/AIDS, and the prospects for the development ofthe organization.
1, continuous learning, to grasp the national principles and policies,develop their own levels of policy and policy insights;
2, to be resourceful, and according to the situation and requirements in thefield of the Organization, make a decision conducive to organizationaldevelopment to ensure stable, healthy and sustainable development of theOrganization;
3, the active participation of the community and community hot topicdiscussions on major issues, an active women‘s voices, for more decision-making power and policy influence. Not because they do not understand can’tsay do not disdain also don’t want to say, but do not be afraid ofoffending people and not.
Second, the sense of:
And false words and not the mules that corresponds to our women andwomen‘s organizations are more light practice saying? The mules , manywomen‘s organizations at the grass-roots did a lot of work, but alwaysconsidered to be right , not to promote itself, did not let the communityknow more about yourself, which is very regrettable.
So, we want to establish a sense of communication, strengthen their public relations ability:
1, and the Foundation and other organizations to communicate: we womenshould learn to promote themselves and their team, to let people know aboutyour accomplishments, knowing your thoughts and ability to make a positiveand positive impression, it can also provide new opportunities for theirfuture development;
2, and other community organizations to communicate: to showcase theirexpertise, learning best practice and mutual complementarity, mutual winwincooperation, expand the scope of their work and share the stage, establish agood environment for organizational development;
3, communication within the Organization: cheerleader and coach,stimulate internal staff enthusiasm, release of staff work, team spirit, andpromote the development of the Organization;
4, communication with target groups: keep abreast of target group needs andfor specific target groups for the project and the work of the suggestions,and lay the Foundation for better services for the target group in thefuture.
Third, innovation
Innovation is mainly embodied in the following three areas: doing thingsthat others have not done, do other people do bad things, not doing thingsthat others do.
So, to develop their sense of innovation, their work and the team continueto grow, continue to grow:
1, their results do not meet, to have a change of consciousness, to be bold,not afraid of failure, which is a prerequisite for innovation;
2, in order to continuously learn new knowledge, new changes, found in theneeds of the community and its work points, which is the Foundation forinnovation;
3, from efforts to study new situations, explore new methods, new ways oftrying to put forward demand for newer, better, more in line with thecommunity‘s ideas and practices, this is an innovative approach.
4, in the process of innovation, constantly sum up experience, surmountingthe shortcoming, so that his work has a new look, new changes bring newsupport and services to the target population, which is the goal ofinnovation.
Four, gender consciousness
We do not rely on our gender, but to keep in play a woman specialist towork, but also to overcome some of the common ailments in women.
1, consider the issue more from the woman‘s point of view: the problem is inwhat‘s the difference between men and women? Men and women experiencedifferent?
2, femaleoriented quality culture, prominent female character strengths,such as compassion, tolerance, flexibility, understanding, bearing in mindthe male character of the benefits, such as vision, generosity, stronglogical thinking and so on;
3, personal style and glamour: from costumes to talk, stay feminine eleganceand generous, both to increase their self-confidence, can also lead toimpress others, give yourself more opportunities.
4, overcoming some common faults in women, small problems.
Five, sense of balance:
The balance of family and career on the one hand, on the other hand is thebalance between business and health, I do not want our friends areworkaholics, especially people living with friends, the body will never bethe capital of revolution, must understand that give, will be get, do not have to worry about without zitan baht to compete.
To learned do a “thousand hand goddess”, arrangements good body, and family, and career Zhijian of relationship; also to has “seesaw” of art, in body, and family, and career Zhijian looking for best balance points, sometimes in concern body Shang more pay some, sometimes in career Shang more pay some, sometimes in family in the more pay some, dang General Shang of also is balance of.
When we travel, ready for the family in advance, keep phones whiletraveling, networking, comes back to buy the family some specialty, is a wayto keep family;
When the work is going well, and the family shared elation when working whenthere is a problem, seek help from family, you know, family is always thebest backing;
No matter how you outside scenery or fail, how to reason or compromise, inthe family you are the gentle wife and loving mother, you will not change in the family, your lover, and more for children cannot be changed.
Of course, this balance must be established on the basis of family support,therefore, for family support and encouragement is all the work of theFoundation.


Finally, I sincerely hope that our women through its continuous efforts,coupled with social support and help, in the area of AIDS prevention and treatment to win your own piece of heaven and Earth, earn respect, wonplaudits, opening up a vast piece of heaven and Earth, a wonderfulinterpretation of the life.

Self-care ability of children developing effective strategies

Self-care ability of children developing effective strategies
Self-care ability of children developing effective strategies
Self-care ability refers to child care in their daily lives to work fortheir own lives. Simply put is self service, take care of yourself, it is aperson‘s most basic life skills. Helps to develop children‘s sense of responsibility, self-confidence and his ability to deal with problems, andwill have a far-reaching impact on the future life of the child. Old sayingsaid: five years of acquisition, as well as 60. This explains theimportance of children developing some good habits from childhood.
Case studyeducation
1. in the Jin dynasty, some children of powerful cock birds all day long,lived a life clothing mouth. Later, the war happens, scatter servantsescape, these children cannot ride a horse, rice won’t Cook, had to sit andwait for death. Now the children around us? Primary school Shi, dad sent, mother received, without himself go a step road, on even bag are is by parents back; to admitted to good is of high school, daily is learning, and learning again learning, hands-on of thing almost are not or without do; finally Shang has University, but they not hanging nets, not wash clothes, Shang University need please nanny, and part-time, even to parents accompanied, clothes pants with home “honor” parents or went straight to the dry cleaning shop……
Imagine if a man even his everyday wouldn’t do or do not want to do, how canwe expect him to do something for someone else in the future? As theancients said: a House do not sweep, sweep the world? as a result,activities to children are required, it is urgent.


2. when children are 4 years old this year (b) class of freshmen, one Park,he was a very lively, and his companions in a strange new environmentfriendly; can actively participate in the educational activities of teachers ‘ organizations. When eating, other kids are eating with relish, but he satthere look, and teachers how to encourage, praise, hope he do it yourself,but he just wouldn’t start. At first, we thought he was uncomfortable, youfeed him, he can turn his share of the meal eat it all. Can continuous days are such, we think somewhat strange, will and clearly of grandma understand clearly in home dinner of situation, only know original clearly with dad mother and Grandpa Grandma live in with, a age half of when, on can himself dinner, but eat have everywhere are is, also often sprinkled rice, Grandma too he put clothes lane dirty has, and think he too thin has should more eat points, so on not let he himself eat, and has been feed he dinner, results habit has didn’t want to himself dinner of habits.
Intelligence, ability to light
Current situation of China‘s one-child family, parents tend to pay specialattention to children‘s intellectual development, education, from prenatal care to one or two years taught early childhood literacy, singing, piano,drawing and, parent to child skills training investment is enormous, andneglects the cultivation of self-care ability of children. Tree of natureeducation to make parents think that children of young, don’t worry, childcare capacity are now taught not to teach, learn or not is a matter, grow upnaturally. As everyone knows, the opportunities for such practices deprivedearly self-care ability of children, so that children depend on others,becomes self-centered, selfish personality everyone else should work for me,parents should not give children opportunities for yourself, let them buildconfidence through exercises and finish they can complete tasks, and getsthe job done and proud of myself. This is young children build self-confidence, sense of achievement, independence, effective premise ofwillpower.
3. the Crystal children in kindergarten is a very good kid. She can do anything: their eating, dressing myself, by myself … … Also often helpsome weaker companion, is the leader in teachers ‘ eyes. Day morning Park,Crystal shoes back, by teacher after a reminder, she said, Grandma back tome. Good shoes to come over.
Parents ‘ excessive indulgence package
The above example is not difficult to see, children have mastered the skillsof shoes, but why did her parents continue to help? This should beattributed to the parents of the child spoiled children self-care abilityand they do not trust. Most children now mainly consists of Grandpa andGrandma, Grandpa and Grandma before enrollment, more favor to the thirdgeneration of the elderly after their retirement, they say, children, can’t bear to let children do this or that, if worn, what will happen? Dang children are active requirements himself hands-on Shi, parents produced has many of “fear” and “not trust” thought: children himself hands-on wear clothing fear wear not neatly, fear slow has sick; children himself dinner fear eat not full, fear off have everywhere are is, fear eat of slow rice cool has; children himself go fear tired with, fear knock with touch with; children himself wash fear made everywhere is water, fear wash not clean, children himself wipe ass fear wipe not clean, children himself sleep fear sleep not with, fear pedal quilt, fear dangerous…… So parents were deprived of the aspirations and opportunities of children hands-on
4 have two children both want to do it yourself wearing socks, loving theirmothers to meet their aspirations. When faced with a crooked when wearingone of children’s sweating, a mother angrily children shouting: I saidyou’re not, you want to be brave, nevermind, I’ll give you. The childrenmade this no longer willing to try to do things for myself. Bmother was delighted to appreciate one‘s own child: yo! Today, just put yourself in areally competent. Come, let Mommy look! Yeah, that’s good, direction andthen adjust if this place would be better. The children are encouraged tonot only getting socks neatly, and independent work and strong interest andconfidence of, over time, abilities and strong.
Improper guidance strategy of developing
Some parents also want to cultivate children‘s ability, the idea is good,but in the end, there was still no effect. The main reason was the trainingmethods were too simple, rough, impatient, dampening the enthusiasm of thechildren’s self-esteem and learning. When children first started working,often doing very slow, and sometimes even errors and is in need of thesupport and encouragement of parents to help improve so that childrenexperience to finish one thing their happiness, thus enhancing theconfidence in their work.

Develop interest in girls

Develop interest in girls
Develop interest in girls


A wide range of interests, hobbies, a great influence on human life. Forgirls, it is even more important. Girls can have their own interests, and as a music so that she will not in the future because nothing better but to feel lonely; girls have broad interests, and to the effort, it is mastered into a golden key to the gate of success; every interest, possible girl’s life … …


In real life, although there are a lot of MOM and dad have noticed, varietyof hobbies and how important it is to train girls.
But it cannot be denied is that a large part of MOM and dad, still is inaccordance with their own ideas and preferences, arranged for the baby‘sfuture development path; or because of some inherent educational thought,forced baby to give up one of your favorite things, block baby hobbiesgermination.


A little girl came earthworms broke in half, two halves are creeping, isparticularly curious. She broke the earthworms are put into two pots ofsoil, wants to observe broken earthworm can live. Mother was very angry,said: a girl, playing with mud, for nothing! Subsequently, the mother ofearthworms in two mud out of the gate.
Babies interested in germination, the MOM in a little girl should be cleanand do some little girl is the right thing to do for the baby was forced tostop acts of observation, exploration. The mother may not think about them,she threw one curse, one, is likely to ruin a woman scientist.
Appreciate and respect your baby‘s interest and supported with greatenthusiasm the baby, doing great chess master Xie, mother.
That year, Xie faces or chess team, or the choice of staying in school togive up chess. She wanted to go to school more likely to play chess, becauseonly she knows, just sit before the Board, she will be extremely fun andexciting. And her mother, the electronic engineer graduated from theDepartment of automation, Tsinghua University, considered for only daughteris more of her studies and future. As a literate mother intervention thanMOM and dad both lost a genius chess player, rather than daughter for thisdelay.
So, a very serious conversation between mother and daughter, Xie was only 12years old. You like to play chess, right? Xiao Xie, looked at my mother, I never saw mum‘s so serious, and a bit scared, but still nodded. OK, but youhave to remember that playing chess this way is your own choice, since youchose to play in the future, will be responsible to yourself!
Just think, if the mother had forced Xie, reading, her love of chess, well,Xie now might sit in a University classroom, and our country will lose agood player. It is undeniable that Xie behind, there is a great mother!
Advice for MOM and dad
As MOM and dad, not only appreciate your baby‘s interest, but also atfinding the baby‘s interest. And, no matter what your interest in baby, youhave to find with great enthusiasm and support, ability to make itsdevelopment a.
Method one: to respect and support the girl‘s interests
To her many interests, she developed a variety of intelligent, as MOM anddad, the first thing we should do is respect her interests and hobbies andmake the appropriate meeting.
For example, if your daughter loves butterflies flutter, MOM and dad might as well an flutter butterfly net for her, and her nature to catchbutterflies, and take this opportunity to teach her some knowledge aboutbutterflies and other insects. I went home, and MOM and Dad can also teachher methods of butterfly specimens, and then classify and archive specimenswith her. Opportunities can also provide some illustrations for her books onbutterflies. Perhaps it is in this process, you create a futureentomologists.
Method two: on her daughter‘s difficulties when the lend a hand
Train your baby‘s interest, without MOM and dad support encourages. Any onething, baby may be interested at first, but over time you‘ll feel bored, youneed MOM and dad support, especially in times of difficulty, to go with thebaby and have a tough time.
A wise mother would do very well in this regard:
When daughter was in third grade, school classes signed up, she would like to sign up for volleyball class, his father and I support her, but we knewour daughter not to eat the bitter.
Sure enough, two weeks later, daughter face said to me: MOM, playingvolleyball, boring. Teacher lets us run all day, Bunny hop, do sit up, tootired.
I smiled and said, daughter, teacher practice your endurance and jumpingability, which is playing good volleyball basic skills necessary. I believeyou are the best, others can do it you can do it too.
Encouraged her to put in at the same time, I also specially bought for his daughter the volleyball, encourage her to play with my classmates. In addition, I often go to see her and her father‘s training, competitions,often with her volleyball. Gradually, the daughter became the star of theteam, from a setter to a Spiker, growth for the last captain of the schoolvolleyball team.
Most of the time, the baby is like a seedling, growing up will inevitablyencounter difficulties and setbacks. At this time, MOM and dad should befixed to the seedlings were two sturdy sticks, baby when I encountereddifficulties or setbacks, helping her, encourage her, taught her how toovercome difficulties so that she can grow up healthily.

How to concentrate on learning

How to concentrate on learning

How to concentrate on learning
Sometimes, our brains are always confused by the confusing things. In the age of the students, these strange thoughts become more and more intense when the exams come. The more you want to learn, the more you can’t concentrate. But for a long time, it will affect the learning efficiency and learning performance.
There are several reasons why you can’t concentrate on learning:
Learning objective is not clear enough
Learning content is too difficult, learning burden is too heavy, the psychological pressure is too large
The learning content is too easy, you have learned by heart, because of repeated learning tired
Excessive fatigue, the brain has not been fully rest
Regardless of what causes the study when the attention is not focused, as long as you try the following approach, it should be how much will have some effect”:
Zaoshuizaoqi, self decompression
Try to use the day to study, improve the learning efficiency per unit time, not greedy black night, tired muddled and all day can not afford to fight spirit. At the same time, do not look at the test results too much, a hard, a harvest, I believe that as long as they work hard, there will be a good return. In this way, the study can be relaxed and happy, the attention is easy to concentrate.
Clear objectives, with good method
From the big side, we have to realize that today’s efforts to learn is to create a bright tomorrow, to become a useful person to the family. From an early age to say, this year, this semester or even this day, I should be completed what learning tasks. The goal is clear, the study of the driving force is enough, attention is not easy to disperse. It is true that we should pay attention to the use of some of the better ways to train ourselves to focus and improve our learning efficiency:
Relaxation training method. Sit comfortably in a chair or lie on the bed, and convey information to the rest of the body. Start from the left foot, so that the leg muscles taut, and then relax, while suggesting that it rest, and then, from the right foot to the trunk, and then relax from the left and right to the trunk. At this time, then from the trunk to the neck, head, face all relax. Just a few minutes, you will be able to enter a relaxed, peaceful state.
Difficult to moderate law. For those who have already been able to solve the problem not to go over and over again and again to the calculation, to find some of the classic problems to conquer. For the difficulty of the problem, first independent thinking, and then turn to the teachers, students or parents. For not interested in difficulty is relatively large, their first set a good plan, limited time to learn, not lax. Take a “hill” in the study, give yourself a reward, so that the sense of achievement to motivate themselves, so as to focus.
Sense and usage. To mobilize a variety of motor organs to coordinate activities in the cerebral cortex to form a strong center of excitement. Such as the ear to listen to the tape, read the words in the mouth, eyes to see the textbooks, hand on the paper to write the words. So, attention is when not “deserter”.
Exclusion method. First, in the absence of any interference in the case of a period of time to recite a paragraph of 200-400 words to see how much time, and then in the side of the article to back this article, to see how long it takes, until the same time in the two environments.

Cultivate children’s right learning habits and methods

Cultivate children's right learning habits and methods

Cultivate children’s right learning habits and methods
Famous writer and educator Ye Shengtao said: “education is to develop good habits.” Good habits can make a person to benefit from a lifetime, good learning habits can let a girl get good grades. Poor performance of the girls, the parents more than the child’s talent is not high or not enough effort, in fact, in addition to these two aspects, that is, learning habits, learning methods have problems.
Learning a mother’s very concerned about the child’s learning method, talking about the girl she said: “teacher said the boy is quite clever and say things can learn, there is a little naughty son, there is to do homework careless too seriously enough. Her primary school performance is very stable, to the junior high school when HERSHEY’S bad. Every day she went home to do the homework quickly, I told her that she had a careless mistake, so that the teacher urged her to do a serious point, finish at least check again. She can do it, but three days later I found she returned to their previous appearance, finish homework carelessly and have no patience examined. I simply stared at her every day, has been going on for two weeks, she has developed a serious habit. After a quiz, after she came back from school to me said, ‘Mom, I am last assignment, I actually checked out of the 4 because of careless wrong problem, I used is the class first assignment, now my goal is not the fastest is 100 points!’ That time, my daughter was admitted to 100 points.”
The lack of correct learning methods learning cannot efficient, good habits is not only related to the girl in front of achievement, more relationship to the long-term development of the child. Even if the girl’s performance is good, parents should also learn to deal with their learning habits, learning methods to achieve understanding and attention, such as unreasonable place, or with the teacher, or consulting education experts, to help children correct.

How to create and protect the child’s curiosity

How to create and protect the child's curiosity

How to create and protect the child’s curiosity
Famous American popular science writer Amor J thought: science begins with curiosity. This world famous physicist Dr. Li Zhengdao also said: to engage in scientific research, we can not do without the curiosity, only curious to put forward the problem, analysis of the problem, to solve the problem. Numerous examples have been record card, curiosity is the child in the course of development of a sum of intangible property, it is the child might be invisible free flying henchmen. As parents, we should do our best to protect the child’s curiosity, the children do not break off this pair of wings.
So, how should we create and protect the child’s curiosity?
First of all, parents should give their children to create a new, interesting space for development. Children’s curiosity is strong, but it is not to say that the child at any time, to any thing all reflect a violent curiosity, only those new and interesting tool to arouse their interest. Children in early childhood, parents should learn in the child’s room or a small bed to put some color beautiful pictures and can make sounds of toys, promote children to explore the physiological growth. Children to about two years old, parents can tell their children stories, do some small hand, small to carry out the child’s curiosity. Children can reading literacy of the age, parents can be properly the child characteristics of copies of the original cause the child’s curiosity. Children are encouraged to register into the to explore the knowledge of the infinite secrets.
Second, treat the child’s “why”. Many parents invented their children cannot raise the question: “river why are winding? Why call buy tools rather than buy a north-south?” is not excessive to the adult, deaf ears, some of the topics very “silly”, incident originally such, why not, like the original satire questions “why Apple only to lose the Newton, disdain surprise in transpiration pot of hot water to the w as. There is no stupid question, but a stupid question. So, facing the child’s question, how should we answer his question, the question to the child, parents should reflect the strong interest, must not be silent. At the same time, parents in the child to answer the question to have enlighten, to carefully guide the child, the child’s curiosity turned to be good at analysis and positive thinking to come up, and cannot understand the problem, parents do not have to reluctantly that can tell him: these things, you will read the book much more, understand the principle, will be able to understand. In order to encourage children to learn knowledge further.
Once again, the accurate view of the child’s curiosity and lead to the crushing action. “Crushing” the intention is to break the shackles, breaking the limit. There is a break, will have a stand. Breaking is the condition and foundation of creation and invention, which is necessary to break the courage, confidence and circumstance that can be broken. As a pass parents, encountered the same situation, restraint is not the best approach them, oh scold them, we can under the proper guidance and protection conditions and appreciate them, encourage them, treat, and support children of certain “crush” action, make them in the “crushing” and “informal” learn thinking, to explore, to create, let their creativity greater play, let their thirst for knowledge, curiosity and innovative mind to get more exercise and training. Shelter this confidence, curiosity and courage, the courage to explore energy. We may have lost some of the spoils, but ultimate accomplishments is a wisdom of creative children, one can probably to create the child in the future. Is this not the search for all the parents?
Finally, the curiosity of the child to the big natural. Natural to change the situation and mysteries the many splendours of the incomparable attracts curious children, parents should often bring the child to devote himself to natural, let the children visited the spring in all sorts of Cordyceps flower change; in the summer night, to the edges of fields, chasing fireflies fluorescence; in late autumn, in the vast wilderness stop, let the children to feel some harvest happy; in winter, Luoying colorful, patches of snow, let the children in exploring the secrets of nature has been the purification of the soul… No doubt, this is all the cause of the child’s curiosity, to guide the child the more hot love and natural love of science good practice.

Let each child grow up healthy


Let each child grow up healthy
British writer Thackeray once said, “the behavior of sowing, harvesting habits, planting habits, harvest character, sowing character, harvest destiny.” Way out the importance of cultivating good behavior habits. Tao Xingzhi, a thinker in our country, once said, “the most important habits of life are likely to be successful before the age of six”. Reveals the necessity of the cultivation of good behavior habits should be early start.
Now children, most of them are only children, is the home of the sun, family of the child’s life take care of meticulously, give the child to eat the best, wearing the best, help children do everything that needs to be done, the maximum to meet the child’s never in front of the children said loudly: “no”. Grandparents, parents too much spoiling, causing children to self as the center, poor ability to adapt, self willed, fear and other issues. From the beginning teacher home visits and questionnaire survey found that small most of the children in the home mouth to eat, clothes to hand, attaches great importance to the many parents of children’s cognitive education, intellectual development, the cultivation of children’s behavior is to “small children” for reason or acting on their behalf not corrected, in early childhood development exist cognitive ability and behavior ability is not harmonious, not synchronous. Many young children in the performance of the program is also very confident, but once let them go to complete a simple task, it is at a loss. Such as: the beginning of the school, the general parents most concerned about things: “my family’s children to eat?” “What did you eat today?” “All the dishes are eaten today?”…… Questions like this. Some parents even said: “my kids like to eat what, other do not eat anything on with him,” parents of this kind of idea prompted children formed eat picky, picky eaters, the partial eclipse, eat bad eating habits of playing, etc., with the passage of time, resulting in a child body nutrient ratios disorders, caused by various signs of malnutrition, affecting the healthy growth of children. Resulting in the beginning, a small part of children with food helpless, just going to sit back and wait for, because these children even eating utensils will not take, not to mention their own independent dining, is also not to say there is a good habit. And the children have not yet formed dining, going to the toilet, listening, playing toys, etc. the basic behavior habits, if we allow this situation to develop, children’s behavior problems will more and more, children’s bad development will be inevitable, will have adverse effects on the rest of your life. This school year I from the age characteristics, psychological development characteristics, formulate corresponding measures to be implemented, to help children form a good living habits. After a school year, they felt a lot of progress. Now make a summary.
First, according to the actual situation of children in the class, to determine the good stage of training objectives.
Children’s good health habits of life, including all aspects of content. At the same time, the children good habits formation is a process of education for a long time, we should according to the class of children, designated a each stage to focus on training target, the eyebrows beard grabbed. Small opening at the beginning, the focus on: cultivate children’s meals after they wash their hands, correct use handkerchief, tableware, not picky eaters and other aspects, children to adapt to the collective life after adding content: the correct method of washing, eating chewing food thoroughly, not talking to keep clean, break the clothes in the right seat, not noisy, do not disturb others, learning sorting toys and books and, after according to the actual situation of children requirements and master degree gradually increased in and pay attention to the characteristics of individual children in education and teaching, vary from person to person, so that has a number of heart, and education in order to have targeted, in order to achieve good results. In addition, small children’s age, for many life habits of the right or not no accurate concept. For children’s bad behavior, teachers can not simply blame, stop, and should be properly explained, the model, so that the formation of young children is a positive concept, there is a model to follow. Such as classes, I have a lot of children in the park at the beginning, take the chair with only one hand dragging the chair go, do not know how to gently, gently and often tilted chair or collide with each other. To this end, I had a conversation with a young child before lunch. Told the children to take a small chair when the chair will be very “pain”, but also easy to damage, and I gave the child a demonstration, and explain how to take the chair, how to gently put the chair, and then, please do me. The children imitate my hands gently pick up the chair, carefully put back seat. From the chairs about kids were out of sight, “bang bang Baba” hit the sound of chairs without, if who occasionally forget, in violation of the requirements, will be immediately other little friends reminded him to immediately correct.