Let the girl to face up to their gender
This phenomenon often occurs in the life, some parents put the girl as a boy, son, son to call his daughter, but also to the girls in the dressing to play a false boy, resulting in lack of flexibility and rigidity of girls. This not only makes a young girl lost the unique charm of women, but also to the future role of girls in the future to lay a hidden trouble.
In fact, men and women are naturally different, boys and girls, in the community to play a different role. Therefore, parents should face the gender difference between the girl and the boy, so that girls agree with their gender. Under this premise, according to the characteristics of the flow, in order to girls, girls become somebody. Let the girl to face up to their gender, parents should pay attention to the following points:
1 let the girl know their own strengths
A lovely little girl is the greatest glory of flowers in the world, innocent, pure and beautiful, gentle and lovely, natural beauty, – – – – – – “a dream of Red Mansions” master trade gem like girls, girls, he said, is “the water of flesh and blood, men are flesh made of mud, saw the girl feel fresh. In the life of a girl’s family will be right. My daughter is a parent’s intimate small cotton padded jacket. Have personal feelings. It is with these lovely girls, our world will become so beautiful.
Compared to boys, girls have many advantages. For example, the advantage of the girl, the girl is quiet and delicate, this is unique to women’s wealth, but also the important factor of social and family harmony and stability. For example, a natural gentle and considerate to make girls more good, more caring girls focus on relationships, good at getting people to like, to be considerate of others, easy to get along with others.
2 let the girl face up to their own gender disadvantage
Of course, everything has two sides, girls have many advantages, but also have a congenital weakness. Girls are born with delicate feelings, pay attention to other people’s evaluation, which often give them trouble in order to maintain the relationship, often give up their own legitimate interests in order to please others, often conceal their views and feelings, easy to compromise and weak. Because of their parents’ love and the nature of the weak, easy to self – Jiao, dependence, do not want to rely on hard work to achieve a career, and the future hopes of unrealistic fantasy, is not conducive to the formation of independent consciousness, in the future, the competition is easy to be at a disadvantage girls love beauty, pay attention to appearance, easy to love, easy to be lured by material interests and lost.
In addition, the girl character suspicious, jealous, love Shuaxiao temper weakness, often make them short-sighted. If girls can face up to their own gender disadvantage, they will gradually overcome their own weaknesses in the process of growing up, so that their own self-cultivation more perfect, make their life more beautiful.
3 let the girl from a young age like on their own sex
Influenced by the elders, particularly fond of boys, some girls don’t like their gender, always wanted to be a boy, so he always dressed up in a boy’s clothes. Here is not to say that you are not a boy dressed, but a long time, often so many will have a negative impact on the future of the girl. Because of the tendency of the girl is not only from the surface can not accept their own gender, but also from the psychological can not accept their own gender. Now there are more people in the community to do sex change surgery, is this reason. So, parents should be in the girl’s small, to guide her to like their own sex.
Girl’s life is a process of constant pursuit. A girl, only to know the true meaning of the happiness of life and with confidence to have it, to make a difference. To this end, parents should pay attention to the excavation, training, improve the quality of the girl, let the girl get more success.
4 let the girls continue to improve the knowledge and culture, the accumulation of content
A promising girl should have a wealth of knowledge, broad vision and elegant culture, will accumulate their own content, so that they produce an inherent quality of the United States, to strengthen their ability to adapt to the needs of society.
5 let the girl learn to self-esteem
Because of the characteristics of the girl’s own gender, some girls want to live on the shoulders of others, or lose their personality for material benefit. This is not desirable. So, parents should cultivate a girl’s independence spirit, so that she has her own world, have the ability to live independently, in the future life, to cherish their own, to maintain their own, do not rely on any one, rely on their own efforts to win the respect of others.
6 to cultivate the girl to do the life of the strong
The girl with delicate features, but not for parents with their own daughter. The weak label. To let the child with a positive attitude and optimism in the face of success and failure, in order to adapt to the fierce competition in the future.
7 to maintain the girl’s gentle nature
The beauty of a woman is always beautiful, gentle, gentle can resolve contradictions, but also can transform the mind. Of course, gentle not only belongs to quiet and gentle girl, personality, cheerful, optimistic girl can also maintain a gentle charm.
A girl is a girl, parents in training the girl to pay attention to the characteristics of their sex, want to let the girl fully understand and understand the advantages and features of their own sex, understand their thinking, make the best use of the circumstances, to maximize play their own energy and train the girl into talents.